Many people say that when they get past 50, it is too old to start following their dreams now, and their excuses have come thick and fast throughout the preceding years.
Making a Living vs Making a Life: I wouldn’t say I liked 17 out of the 18 jobs I had, as each time I got a job, I became increasingly aware that I had to look after myself at some point or live a life of mediocrity.
Then, out of the blue, I embarked on my journey of passion and purpose, not because I had won some money or even saved any, it was because I had been sacked again and couldn’t find another job; my dreams had come true although that thought was far from my mind at the time, my back was against the wall and time for me to stop making excuses.
In today’s fast-paced world, many people find themselves caught in the cycle of making a living. They secure a job, earn an income, and live within the confines of that paycheck.
This approach often leads to a segmented life where work and personal fulfilment are separate entities. However, many individuals choose a different path—one where they make a life by pursuing their passions and dreams.
For me, the traditional path of making a living was the necessity of securing a stable job driven by societal expectations of my mother and father and then financial obligations.
People work to earn a living, and their income dictates their lifestyle; at the same time, this approach can provide a false sense of security nowadays and can sometimes lead to dissatisfaction and a longing for something more meaningful.
The alternative path of making a life for me was necessary because I would never make it working for others. My Dyslexia was a curse, and so I had to keep my head down or get found out, a life I didn’t want.
On the other hand, some dare to follow their dreams and passions. These individuals often find themselves in careers they love, where work doesn’t feel like work. By making a life, they align their professional pursuits with their values and interests. This path is not without its challenges, but the rewards are immense as they experience a sense of fulfilment and joy that transcends financial gain.
Teaching the next generation not to fear or to be brainwashed into submission is everyone’s responsibility, and not only the job of parents who have chosen to make a life rather than just a living often pass on this mindset to their children. They encourage their kids to dream big and pursue what truly makes them happy. By setting an example, they show that it is possible to achieve great things when you follow your heart. This approach fosters creativity, resilience, and a strong sense of purpose in the next generation.
My conclusion is whether you make a living or a life, finding balance and fulfilment is key. It’s about understanding what truly matters to you and having the courage to pursue it. For those who choose to make a life, the journey is filled with passion, purpose, and the possibility of achieving anything without being constrained by price tags.